Endorsement by University of Oklahoma Head Coach Bob Stoops
“Coach Fry has taught me so much, on and off the football field. His positive attitude, work ethic, and ability to have some good-old-fashioned fun are just a few of the things that continue to impact the way I lead my own players and assistants today. Beyond Xs and 0s does an amazing job of capturing the essence of who Coach is, and how he grew such a successful football program at
— Bob Stoops
Head Football Coach,
Three-time National Coach of the Year
Foreward by University of Iowa Head Coach Kirk Ferentz
So many people have celebrated, and continue to celebrate, the story of Coach Fry and the Iowa Hawkeyes. Fewer people know the story of Tom Berthel and how he built a multimillion-dollar company from the ground up. And even fewer know the great story of the friendship that these two men share. The following chapters provide a snapshot of their relationship and challenge all of us to really think about what it takes to achieve and maintain success.
Even though Tom is a business executive and I am a football coach, we both owe a great deal of our success to the mentoring of Coach Fry. In fact, most of what I have learned about college coaching started with his direction and guidance. Whether it was how a program should be run, how to mentor others, how to hire people, or how to recruit, the foundation of my own story was built upon what I learned during my early coaching years at
By the time Coach Fry hired me, he and his staff had been in the building process for two years, and a lot of the heavy lifting had already been done. They had experienced several close games and tough losses, and the team was very, very tired of losing. What impressed me was that everybody had their minds solidly set on achieving a winning season, even though it hadn’t happened yet. Coach Fry and his staff had certainly been successful at instilling an attitude of winning. During the year prior to my arrival at
We didn’t have that sort of talent at
Needless to say, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what happened at
In addition to hiring me, Coach Fry brought in Barry Alvarez, a successful high school coach in
Once he had the “right people,” he was deliberate in building a culture that allowed us to get out of our own way and succeed. Typically, coaches and competitors want to keep one foot on the gas, continually pushing harder, but Coach Fry has an amazing way of knowing when less is more. I can remember being in the locker room prior to the 1984 Freedom Bowl, preparing to play
Another memory of Coach Fry’s ability to get the team refocused for crucial games came prior to a midseason game in 1987. We were 4–3 and struggling to gain momentum. It seemed to be one step forward, one step back, and he obviously knew that a good belly laugh could be the fuel we all needed to get in sync. Before Coach Fry came into the locker room, one of our players got up in front of the team with a card board cutout of Coach’s face. He got really animated, gesturing and talking like Coach Fry. . . . Of course, the whole team was laughing. In the midst of it all, Coach came into the room, behind the player, and started miming that he was strangling the guy. Well, the laughter got louder and the player kept going because he thought it was all about him. He had no idea that he’d just been busted. We ended up winning six straight games after that, and I’ve often wondered if the whole thing was orchestrated. It was just too coincidental. Coach Fry was a master at knowing when to do things like that. It is a gift.
I don’t think any of us knew at the time how demanding it was to be the head coach of a college program. Coach Fry made it look so easy and seemed to take everything in stride. I will never forget calling him a couple weeks after accepting my first head coaching job at the
All of us who worked for Coach Fry picked up many of his values, ideas, and even his traits. As Tom explains in the following pages, Coach is one of a kind, and I would certainly never attempt to duplicate him or pretend to have his charisma or charm. One thing I learned a long time ago is that you cannot be somebody you’re not. That’s why they call it mentoring, and not cloning. I’m fortunate to have had more than one mentor in my lifetime: my father, Coach Fry, and Joe Moore, my high school coach and former boss at
Most of us are successful in life because somewhere along the way somebody took a special interest in us. Needless to say, I am so appreciative and have always felt indebted to Coach Fry for taking a risk on me. He gave me a solid start, personally and professionally, and I feel very fortunate that our current coaching staff at
My deepest thanks to Tom Berthel, for sharing his own story in Beyond Xs and Os; in doing so, he is helping the rest of us to celebrate the life and contributions of Coach Fry. As you read, I invite you to enjoy some great football memories; to set a new goal or follow through on an old one; and, most important, to consider the people in your own life who may need someone to believe in them.
Enjoy . . . and Go Hawks!
—Coach Kirk Ferentz
University of Iowa